Real Resources for Real Transitions
Starting at a new school can be one of the most difficult parts of moving, especially for military kids. The shift brings new routines, unfamiliar hallways, and the challenge of navigating friendships and academics all over again, while possibly having a loved one deployed overseas. As parents, we want to offer more than emotional encouragement, we want to give our children practical tools and real support to help them succeed.
One of the best starting points is connecting with the School Liaison Officer (SLO) at your installation. SLOs act as the bridge between military families and local schools. They’re trained to help with everything from understanding enrollment procedures to navigating differences or special education services. Even if you’re moving to a location that doesn’t have an installation nearby, your current SLO can help you connect with someone at the nearest base, or you can use this website. You don’t need to be stationed on base to get their support, and they’re often able to help with finding the right schools and advocating on your behalf.
As you research schools, check to see if your new location participates in the Purple Star School Program. These schools are recognized for their commitment to supporting military-connected students and often have systems in place like student-led welcome committees, military family resource staff, and transition programs. While not every state or school participates in the program yet, it’s expanding each year and can be a helpful signal that a school understands and supports military families. Check out this website to learn more.
Another powerful tool in helping kids adjust is encouraging them to join extracurriculars, clubs, or sports. One longitudinal study in Canada found that kids who joined team-based programs between grades 4 and 7 showed measurable improvement in mental health, largely due to a stronger sense of peer belonging (PubMed). And in a large U.S. study, youth in team sports were less likely to struggle with anxiety, depression, or social withdrawal compared to their peers (CSUF News). Altogether, these findings show that extracurricular participation isn’t just fun, they are a proven way to support emotional resilience and social adjustment during a school transition.
It’s also important to know your rights under the Interstate Compact on Educational Opportunity for Military Children. While it may sound technical, this Compact exists to help ease common school transition issues like delayed enrollment, course placement, special education plans, or graduation requirements. It ensures that military children are treated fairly when they transfer between school systems, especially across state lines. If you’re running into red tape, your SLO can step in and help advocate using this Compact.
Of course, it’s natural for kids to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or sad during a big transition. But while it’s important to make room for those feelings, it’s just as important to help them feel empowered. Let them choose how to set up their new space, encourage them to stay in touch with old friends, and celebrate small wins along the way. A little ownership can go a long way in helping them feel confident and capable in their new environment.
Military kids are strong, but they shouldn’t have to figure everything out on their own. With the right tools, support systems, and resources like the SLO, Purple Star Schools, clubs, and the Interstate Compact, they can do more than adjust. They can thrive. If you’re unsure where to begin, Military No Stress PCS is here to help. Our team can point you toward the right contacts and make this part of your PCS journey a little smoother for both you and your child.
